Each of us has been told we were born with a purpose. Romans 8:28 reminds us “all things work together for the good of those who love God—who have been called according to His plan and purpose.” But if God has called us and has a purpose for our lives, why do we still suffer? Why do we face tribulations? The truth is, we can experience troubles whether we are walking inside or outside the will of God. The difference is that one leads us closer to Him, while the other leads to isolation.
How can we tell if our suffering is drawing us closer to God or leading to isolation?
When our suffering leads us to pray, trust, and depend on God’s Word more, it’s drawing us closer to Him. But when pain causes us to run, hide, or act out of disobedience, we shift toward isolation. Samson’s story shows both sides. How disobedience can distance us from God, yet repentance and surrender can bring us back into His will.
Samson’s Story:
Samson was consecrated to God from the womb as a Nazarite (see Numbers 6:1–21). Even before his birth, God’s angel told his mother that Samson was set apart to deliver Israel from the Philistines. But as he grew older, Samson went places he shouldn’t have gone, seeking love where God had warned against. Ignoring his parents’ counsel, he married outside God’s will, which led to betrayal, heartbreak, conflict, and ultimately, his own death.
What lessons from Samson’s life can we apply to our own journeys?
Samson’s story reminds us that:
- The enemy often uses people we trust to distract or destroy us.
- God looks at our hearts, not appearances.
- Our strength comes from God alone, not our gifts or abilities.
- Disobedience causes distance from God, while obedience keeps us in His presence.
- God can still use us despite our mistakes, but obedience allows Him to do far more.
Just like Samson, we’re all given a purpose. But walking outside of God’s will can delay, damage, or even destroy what He’s called us to do.
How do we discern God’s purpose for us in times of trouble?
We find purpose through seeking God’s presence, reading His Word, and submitting our hearts to His direction. Trouble doesn’t mean God has forgotten us—it often means He’s shaping us. As we obey and remain in Him, His purpose becomes clearer even through pain.
Lessons for Us Today:
- God can bring good even from our mistakes, but far greater comes through obedience.
- He allows us to choose, even when choices lead to harm—so choose what pleases Him.
- Don’t let emotions or romantic feelings bind you; God’s will matters most.
- Dating or partnering outside God’s will puts us at risk of heartbreak, separation from Him, and destruction.
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